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Check if you may be able to recover money lost to a romance scam

Romance scams often develop over time, with trust built through ongoing contact before any money is transferred. This can make them difficult to recognise until after a payment has been made.

In some cases, payments made in good faith may be treated as authorised push payment (APP) fraud. Whether a complaint can be made depends on the circumstances and how the situation was handled at the time.

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Why Choose Compensation Adviser

Losing money through a romance scam often involves more than just the financial loss, particularly where contact has built up over weeks or months.

Compensation Adviser takes a considered approach to these cases, helping you understand what happened and what steps may be available based on your individual circumstances. You’ll receive clear, straightforward guidance to help you understand your options.

Compensation Adviser is authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority (FRN 829766) for claims management activities.

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What Is a Romance Scam?

A romance scam is a type of fraud where someone builds an online relationship with you to gain your trust before asking for money.

This often happens through dating sites, social media, or messaging apps. The scammer may create a believable story, emotional connection, or urgent reason for needing funds.

Scammers often:

  • Create fake identities or use stolen photos to appear genuine
  • Ask for money for emergencies, travel, or investment opportunities

How Romance Scams Work

Romance scams usually begin with unexpected contact online. The person may quickly show strong interest, message often, and build a sense of closeness over time. They may claim to be overseas, in the military, or unable to meet in person for a convincing reason.

Once trust has been established, financial requests begin. These may seem urgent and believable, such as medical bills, travel costs, or short-term problems. In some cases, victims are encouraged to make repeated payments or even invest in fake opportunities such as cryptocurrency schemes.

These scams can last weeks or months and are carefully designed to make the requests feel justified at the time.

That is why many victims do not recognise the situation until after several payments have been made.

Warning Signs Behind Romance Scam Claims

Many romance scam claims involve patterns that only become clear in hindsight.

Here are several signs that may indicate a romance scam:

 

The person avoids meeting and creates reasons to stay online

You are asked for money due to urgent or emotional situations

They quickly express strong emotions or commitment early in the relationship

Their stories are inconsistent or change over time when questioned

They claim to be working abroad or in situations that prevent meeting

They ask you to keep the relationship or payments private

Scammers may move the conversation away from the original platform quickly

What To Do If You’ve Been Scammed:

Contact your bank immediately to report the transaction

Report it to Action Fraud

Avoid sending any further money

Save screenshots, usernames, profile details, and any payment references

Keep records of messages, payments, account details, and timelines

Can You Get Your Money Back From a Romance Scam?

In some cases, it may be possible to recover money after a scam, even if the payment was authorised.

This depends on how the payment was made, what happened at the time, and how your bank or provider responded. In some situations, reimbursement rules may apply.

How Do Reimbursement Rules Apply to Romance Scams?

Many romance scams involve authorised push payment (APP) fraud, where money is sent willingly based on false or misleading information.

In the UK, reimbursement rules introduced in October 2024 are designed to improve protection for customers affected by these types of scams.

These rules mean that, in certain situations, banks and payment providers may be required to reimburse customers, depending on the circumstances and how the payment was handled.

They build on an earlier voluntary code under which many banks had already reimbursed customers affected by APP fraud.

In some cases, complaints may also be reviewed by the Financial Ombudsman Service, which has recently reported a growing number of romance scam complaints.

Every case depends on the facts. How the scam developed, how payments were made, and how the bank responded can all affect the outcome. While recovery is not guaranteed, some people may still be able to question whether the situation was handled appropriately.

What Affects Whether You Can Make a Romance Scam Claim?

Several factors can influence whether a complaint may be possible:

  • How payments were made (for example, bank transfer, card, or cryptocurrency)
  • Whether warning signs were present or should have been identified
  • The pattern, timing, and size of transactions
  • How the bank or payment provider responded
  • Whether any safeguards or fraud checks were applied

Understanding these factors can help clarify whether your situation may be worth reviewing.

How Compensation Adviser Helps

Compensation Adviser is here to help you understand your options after a romance scam. You can start with a free, no-obligation assessment to see whether you may be able to make a complaint.

If you decide to move forward, we can support you through the process. This may include reviewing your case, helping organise evidence, assisting with communication to the bank where needed, and explaining what happens next.

Our aim is to make the process clearer and less stressful, so you can make informed decisions about what to do next.

  • Free, no-obligation assessment
  • Guidance and support throughout the process
  • Help identifying the evidence that may support your complaint

Frequently Asked Questions

Can you get your money back from a romance scam?

In some cases, it may be possible to recover money from a romance scam, depending on how the payments were made and how the bank or payment provider responded. Each situation is different, and outcomes are not guaranteed.

What should I do after a romance scam?

You should contact your bank as soon as possible, stop any further payments, and gather evidence such as messages and transaction details. Acting early can help protect your position.

Can I make a complaint if I sent the money myself?

Yes. Many romance scams involve authorised payments, where people are persuaded to transfer money. In some cases, these situations may still be reviewed depending on the circumstances.

What evidence do I need for a romance scam claim?

Messages, transaction records, screenshots, timelines, and payment details can all help support your case. Keeping as much information as possible can make it easier to understand what happened.

What if I feel embarrassed about what happened?

These scams are designed to manipulate trust, and feeling embarrassed is a common reaction after experiencing a romance scam. It’s important to remember that you are the victim of a sophisticated crime, and it could happen to anyone.

Is there a cost to check if I have a claim?

No. Compensation Adviser offers a free initial assessment so you can understand your options before deciding what to do next. There’s no obligation for you to use our service to make your claim.

Do I have to use a claims service?

No. You can make a complaint yourself for free by contacting your bank, and in some cases the Financial Ombudsman Service.

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You are not required to use our services to pursue your claim. You can also seek further advice or shop around subject to any time limits within which a claim must be made.

It is possible for you to present the claim for free, either to the bank, business or person against whom you wish to complain or to the Financial Ombudsman Service or the Financial Services Compensation Scheme, whichever is applicable to your claim.